As any former reality show contestant will tell you, the tone of a scene is dictated not by content, but by the editing. Actresses know this, which is why agreeing to a sex scene is really an act of faith. Unfortunately, sometimes that faith is poorly placed. Even well-shot, intense scenes can become the wrong type of cult film when taken out of context (ask Natalie Portman about it). Still, what’s done is done, and these women are living full lives, with one major change—they now have to ask friends and family not to the Google their names without SafeSearch.